If you’re suspicious that your spouse may be cheating on you, the first step you can take is look for the most frequent signs of infidelity.
While they may not be definite, you are sure to get a hint in the right direction. Although there are quite a few observations you can make that are simple and easy, below is a list of the 10 most common signs your husband or wife maybe cheating on you.
Do you see any changes between the sheets?
– One of the most common signs of cheating spouses is a change in sex drive. Some of the changes that should alert you, are decreased interest in sex, increased interest, more aggressive in bed and probably the biggest red flag being him or her wanting to try new sexual positions.
Can you “sniff” out infidelity? – Pay close attention when your spouse comes home smelling of a perfume or cologne other than his own; or any other smell, like shampoo, etc which are clearly not their own.
Does it “ring” foul play? – In our day and age no affair can last without contact on the phones. Look out for unexpected changes in the pattern of phone behavior, whether it’s the unexpected need for a new cell phone, strange calls at surprising times. You may become aware of your partner getting nervous when receiving certain phone calls…needing to go out of the room to answer a call etc.
Look for the paper trail – When one has an affair more often than not the operating cost to support their hidden cheating life comes with more expenses. Watch out for unknown expenses on credit bills or receipts left in his/her pockets.
Mood swings – Has your other half started to display erratic mood swings. Apparently needs more “space for themselves”. They become more aggressive and confrontational.
Where are they? – Is your spouse unexpectedly going off on lengthy errands? You notice they have recently picked up “hobbies” or are spending a lot more time with friends. Making a lot of excuses for sudden changes in their routine.
Don’t I look good? – Is your boyfriend or girlfriend paying more attention than usual to their look than before?
Are they all of a sudden going on a health regime? This is a very common sign of a cheater!
What’s that mark? – Pay close consideration to your partner when they are changing their clothes….do you spot any bit marks or scratches or any other mysterious marks on their body.
You don’t have access – While they may have been very open and relaxed about access to their email etc…now you’re limited with what you can access.
It’s all in the eyes – One of the major signs of a cheating spouse is to avoid eye contact with you when they are lying about their situation. If you see your other half always displaying fleeting eyes when answering you, it should hoist a big “red flag”
Remember that you should in no way confront your husband or wife directly without having hardcore evidence or all you’ll end up getting is a violent denial.
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